Denial, is what causes tnharley's situation to be the norm. Claiming that it's a man's duty to fork out cash to an unemployed woman, is what makes men think it's his job. Minimalizing the problem enables lazy women to continue the game. Anyone with the functioning brain can see this isn't right. And yet, all he gets is, "Harsh sadface".
There is good news though.
Courts are slowly granting men full custody with child support and yes, alimony. But there's a catch, there's always a catch. "Primary caregiver" is a slight of hand term for full-time parent; that is to say, househusbands are increasingly more likely to gain full custody, and benefits. Now... count the number of househusbands you know; count the number of husbands work less than their wives and therefore provide more care-giving; count the number of couples in an equal relationship. If the number is more than 15% (and I'm being generous) then either you're socializing with welfare cases (don't knock it, we're expected to respect welfare moms), or you're living under a rock. The point here is, courts don't care if you can afford your kids; only that you "nurture" them; the courts will find ways to get you money.
Trapped on this mud ball, surrounded by shaved apes who claim sentience while existing on base instincts dolled up in phrases like "trust your gut" and "follow your heart". Seriously, you're all just fucking animals fucking each other over over rocks and sticks which somebody calls money. And seeing this, somehow makes me the stupid asshole.
plasmaball: Yes a woman's Orgasm is like trying to spot the wild snow leopard. You must wait weeks upon maybe months and if you are lucky you might spot a small puddle from this cunning creature called the orgasm. its more like sometimes you have to fake it because
Feb 7, 2013 12:05:17 GMT -5
plasmaball: we find you boring.
Feb 7, 2013 12:05:22 GMT -5
LadyGunSlinger: Your psychobabble is just that and shows you don't know shit about a woman's body.
Feb 7, 2013 12:27:10 GMT -5
plasmaball: sigh sarcasm is lost on the stupid. dear the womans body is not a rubix cube.
Feb 7, 2013 12:37:53 GMT -5
LadyGunSlinger: As if I am suppose to be able to discern your attitude over the interwebz??
Feb 7, 2013 12:44:55 GMT -5